Article by: Paulette Rigo

 Let’s love our gentleman. We don’t want to neglect them. There are good ones and highly evolved ones.

When we learn to keep our heart open and continue to try in our personal love, we reap amazing benefits. I mean come on… What are the current statistics of Divorce? 50% for the first marriage… 67% for the second, and 73% third…

YIKES! They aren’t good!!

At 23, I felt intense pressure to get married and fit in. I felt like I had to do what was expected of me… Dressed up as a bride, dreamt about the wedding, My Goal was to find a husband, first and foremost


The right person, the right time, the right connection. THEN the midlife crisis really is a crying out for wanting to feel alive again. You can’t fight for something that doesn’t exist. If something is harming our spirit, we must let it go.

Why are Millennials not marrying? FEAR. Their spiritual standpoint. Don’t need a piece of paper. Freedom.

They are there because they choose to be there not because they have to. They have seen their parents struggle: lie, cheat, and disrespect each other. The staying together for the children epidemic (ages 30-50). Because it is only a piece of paper.

Getting a divorce was the best decision I ever made … Marrying the wrong person doesn’t make them a bad person. We all deserve to be happy. We are taught we are sinners if we leave, so we stay.

What does a happy marriage look like? Marriage is not an obligation but a genuine connection. Your partner makes you the best version of “You” you can be. They bring out the best in you and you do the same for them.

That is all I want for everyone, is to be happy. To support you in your decision to work on the marriage, to divorce gracefully and to find a happy life, no matter what.




Paulette Rigo, CDC®, Career Transition Specialist,Mediator

Founder, Better Divorce Academy
Host, The Thriving In Chaos Project with Paulette Rigo and Sonia Queralt

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Location: 225 Jeff Davis Drive, Fayetteville GA 30214
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Paulette is the founder and lead divorce coach, career transition specialist, mediator and mentor of Better Divorce Academy, an organization dedicated to helping create a better divorce story for everyone involved.


The divorce process can make us feel like we’re coming undone. Through private coaching, courses, online groups, real-world retreats, and more, we help you prepare yourself and your affairs for the next stage of your life. Our team will be there to support you every step of the way.
Paulette helps save time, money, relationships and heartache.


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