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Joyce Fine
CDC Certified Divorce Coach®
Languages Spoken
English
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About my Practice

As a Divorce Coach, I work as a thought partner with individuals and couples to support them in making the best decisions they can for their family as a whole. A common pitfall that people who are divorcing often make is finalizing important decisions under stress — when they are feeling emotional and reacting to something their partner has said or done, or has not said or done within a time frame that they wanted. Some primary emotions that throw people off kilter and interrupt their otherwise solid thinking include hurt, betrayal, anger, hostility, and fear. My task is to help ground people to think through the colossal decisions they must make during divorce. I do this in several ways, including using divorce education, visualization exercises, asking questions about people’s intentions and relationship history, and other techniques. I also help individuals and couples set goals for their divorce and create a step-by-step process to achieve them.Common questions divorcing parents ask include how to tell their partner they want a divorce, how and when they should tell their children they are divorcing, who should move out of the family home, why is it important for children to have overnights with each parent, and much more.

My clinical training enhances my coaching skillset because I am a professional communicator trained in teaching people how to discuss difficult and painful topics. This is exactly what I do when working with divorcing couples: I help them communicate effectively together during a difficult time. Additionally, as a clinician, I educate parents about their children’s developmental stages and needs during divorce. I can quickly assess when some couples would benefit from psychotherapy instead of or in addition to divorce coaching. I have a solid network of colleagues to refer clients to for legal, financial, and mental health help.

The couples I tend to work best with are those who are able, either through diligent work or with less effort, to put the best interests of their children and their future co-parenting relationship as their top priorities. When requested, I work with parents to create a tailored parenting plan which is their schedule for how the children will spend time with both parents after they separate. These parenting plans are sometimes a work in progress, with parents trying out one aspect of a schedule at a time to assess how it works for their child or children, and then revising it according to their child/children’s needs.

Services I Offer

Please go to http://www.drjoycefine.com for more information on the services that I offer.

Professional Memberships

Board Member, Colorado Collaborative Divorce Professionals
American Psychological Association
International Association of Collaborative Practice
Metro Denver Interdisciplinary Committee (MDIC) (Family Law Professionals)
COAFCC (Colorado Chapter of the Association of Family and Conciliation Courts)
Colorado Psychological Association