Pamela Ludmer, MD MMEL
CDC Certified Divorce Coach®
Alignity, LLC
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About my Practice

“Life isn’t about waiting for the storm to pass.  It’s about learning to dance in the rain.”

Vivian Greene

My practice focuses on helping physician mothers, and other professional mothers, through all stages of the divorce process.  I incorporate my experiences as a physician, an educator, and coach to provide you with guidance and support to help you make the best decisions possible and to manage the inevitable conflict so that you and your children can move on to joyful lives.  Most importantly, I have been where you are and I know how alone it can feel.  But you do not need to go through; we can get through this storm together.

We can work together to help you:

  • Determine what is most important to you in the divorce process
  • Develop a plan to navigate the many challenges you will face in your divorce
  • Apply tools for handling difficult conversations
  • Create a plan for self-care to allow to you to attend to your children’s needs during and after the divorce process
  • Develop a sense of curiosity about the opportunities divorce will place in your path
Services I Offer

I offer one-on-one coaching sessions by phone or video conference.  All sessions and packages are customizable to meet your unique needs and are geared to where you are in the divorce process. 

Here are some sample packages to give you some ideas of how we might work together.

Six month package for those of you just starting out and looking for maximum support.  

Three month package that will get you clear on what is most important to you so you can make the best decisions possible. You will also receive tools to help you manage your emotions, navigate conflict, and communicate more effectively with your partner so that you can navigate the divorce process with more ease and confidence.

Four week nuts and bolts package, customized to your immediate needs around the budgeting, completing financial documents, and/or the parenting plan.

Single sessions available as well.


CDC Certified Divorce CoachⓇ
Erickson Solution Focused CoachⓇ
Gaia Certified Women’s Leadership CoachⓇ

Background Experience

I am an Internal Medicine/Pediatrics and Adolescent Medicine trained physician.

The combination of my Masters in Medical Education Leadership and certification as a Gaia Women’s Leadership Coach provides me with insights into the challenges faced by physician women and other women leaders, both at work and at home, that are often exacerbated by divorce.

I combine all of the above to provide a unique and customized coaching experience for my clients.

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